Be a Father to
your Child
You are a big balla, shot caller the cool kats that all the other balla’s want to be like. You roll on them thangs
20-26 inch rims. You wearing the coldest fashions your jewelry is so cold a person needs a coat on just to stand next to you.
Or, maybe you are Mr. Corporate America. You’re that major figure in the board room as you enter the office the staff
starts to perform, as if the President has just arrived. In other words both these type of men are all that and a bag of chips.
The two types mentioned are just the basics, there’re many others with various descriptions, but they all have one thing
in common. They are deadbeat dads.
In the public they are the guys that most young ladies want as a father to their child. But, guess what he loves only
himself. Fellows, some of you have the notion that it’s up to the female to make sure she protects herself against getting
pregnant; if she doesn’t it’s oh well. You see this female and all you see are her breast and butt. Your hormones
start to rage and you see nothing but sex. Now with this act she gets caught. A child is on its way. She tells you, you reply
I just hit it one-time; it ain’t mine, that’s if you’re from the street. If you’re from the executive
suite you are more sophisticated with it, your reply would probably be why are you telling me, I’m certain I don’t
have anything to do with it I barely know you. Bottom line, if you have the attitude I go bare back or I don’t go at
all, you risk the act of conceiving a child. You have to take responsibility for your action if you don’t marry the
girl you still have a child to consider.
A mother, is usually the one responsible for the child, she feeds the child the changes the diapers. She worries when
the baby cries. The mother lay’s in bed at night and wonder why did she give herself, how could she be so wrong about
a person. In the mean time, you have a child or children and all you’re doing is making babies and not taking responsibilities
for them. Just think of how your child feels when, their shoes have holes in them and other kids laugh at them about. Or,
your child has to receive food stamps or other government assisted programs, that wouldn’t be necessary if you would
only step up to the plate. Keep in mind fellows children grow up and become adult, you in the mean while will grow old. The
same child that you turned away, you will regret that you did one day. I always told my sons don’t lay down with anybody
that you wouldn’t want to be the mother of your child. If she isn’t good enough to marry, then she isn’t
good enough to have sex with. If you can’t help yourself you use protection, don’t be the cause of a child to
suffer.
Fellows, children need clothes, food, shoes, and most of all love from both parents. When the son or daughter grow
up and become a professional athletic, lawyer, entertainer, or just a success in their on right. Then, here you come talking
about that’s my child. I just want to get to know him or her, well guess what Jim; you are a whole lot of days late
and a lifetime of dollars short. By, now in most cases the child is coloring another MAN father. Any male can product a child
only a man can raise one. If you aren’t taking care of you children because of the mother, think about your child.
When the day comes, when you meet the Greater I am, and your child can’t shed a tear for you, because they don’t
really know you. Or, the child doesn’t even come to your funeral, you may say I won’t be there to know, well know
this others will know and no matter how much good you think you’ve done or the accomplishments you have made in your
life, you will find that you have failed the most important one and it is really the simplest one just be a father to your
child……Much respect and admiration goes to all the single fathers, step-fathers, and the fathers that stuck it
out in marriages that really lasted for the sake of the kids to you all, I give you your roses while you can yet smell them.
You are the real men. To the men who aren’t, one day you will wish you had…just keep living, and just picture
your child not having enough to eat while you ball. Think, about your child not having the proper clothing, and just doing
fun things that children enjoy, that doesn’t cost much but some single mother just can’t swing it. As a final
thought while you are living large, picture your child with a tear rolling down it’s face because other kids have things
and they don’t because their mother can’t afford it and you are nothing but a dead-beat dad-and definitely not
a man. To the single mothers left with the child or children, keep your head up your babies don’t stay babies forever,
and the rewards it yours in the end. Peace out…
