Brother Got a Complex Occupation

This article was written after numerous requests from guys asking me to talk to their significant others. Be it the main woman or side woman. Living the glamorous life, wearing the best clothes, driving the hottest cars, living in the largest homes, owning the finest furniture, and having the most beautiful women, all of the above mentioned is the life of the balla, hustler, drug dealer, professional athlete, actor, artist, businessmen (when successful)…

If their occupation is legal or illegal there are still occupational hazards associated with all their successes. I deal with all of above mentioned and hear the same complaints from all of them the legal and alleged illegal. The guy that work hard in corporate America, putting in his work and finally makes it as well as the brother that fights to stay alive in the streets and finally makes it.

Let’s focus on the brother in streets, the nice girls wants the balla a man with money a balla isn’t just the guy on the street it’s any man with money. But, we’ll start with the balla on the streets. There are several serious hazards that come with this man, on the road to his riches. The two main possible set-backs are jail, and death. If he can survive theses two set-backs he’s blessed. Some females look at the movies like (Scarface) and fall in love with the idea of being the main lady of a powerful street man. In her mind she will be respected just because shes his main lady and she will. She loves the perks of this man. The question is can she embrace the negative side of the power. The late night collect calls from jail if he’s popped? What about the secret indictments that are attached to a warrant that is served at her home. She could be arrested with him depending on if they feel she has information that would make the governments case against him stronger. Regardless will she abandon the Balla and Shot Caller, or would she stand by her man?

It reminds of one my favorite sayings, “everybody wants to go to Heaven but nobody wants to die”. To any woman that gets involved with a Brother with a Complex Occupation. You need to know the risk associated with this man before you get involved. A hustling man is in most cases a good man. Normally they’re protective, and the best friend that you can have. In the cases I’ve seen, they aren’t the heartless men that they’re often portrayed as in the Media, or etc. They are good fathers, husbands, and friends. There is good and bad in all.

Oh yes the other women on the side. The women comes with Power and Money, it’s like the formula 1+2=3. The hustling men usually have different females that perform different task. If he’s in the Drug Business the main woman keeps the money at her house, the side woman keep the drugs and take care the clients for the guy. Now sometimes the side woman quickly becomes the Main woman because she’s usually with him the most.

So, if you’re dating a Hustler, don’t trip about him being out late at night and you have your hand out when he comes home. Don’t trip about the women that he has around that are hustling as hard as he is in most cases harder, while you sit at home looking at all your treasures, usually gotten by his hustling and the female that hustles with him doing things you’re too good to do. The pressure that you put on him could cause him his life or freedom, because all he hears is your nagging voice. Now if you want to have a life with this type of man realize the risk… If the kitchen is too hot get out. It takes a special woman to really love this type of man. Only you know if you are. One more thing because of this man lifestyle he trust a very few. That means it’s dangerous if he finds you untrustworthy. So, make sure know what you are asking for. Love is love all day long and it covers a many of faults. If you decide to deal with a hustler the best thing you can learn to do harder is to pray. Pray that he lives to get out of the game alive and with his freedom.

Peace out...